What’s the use of being in a marriage/relationship when there is no element of surprise in it?
A union with surprises simply means the couple are still in love and are highly passionate about each other; it means the couple would go the extra length just to see the other partner happy; it means the union is happy; it means they are still in love.
A woman who hasn’t been giving her man surprises simply shows that she isn’t just unromantic but insensitive to her man’s unsaid needs. Surprise would only make your relationship blossom the more.
I have seven surprises your man would definitely love.
1. TAKE HIM OUT ON AN UNPLANNED DATE
Men are used to calling the shots; they are used to planning the dates, the fun and so many other things in a relationship. Taking your man out on a surprise date would definitely make him feel different and see you as mysterious – you have to know that men are always interested in the mystery girl, always. Take your man out on a surprise date, share a glass of wine with him, be happy and put a smile on his face, and he would forever remember such moments.
2. A HANGOUT WITH HIS FRIENDS
Men always love being with their friends – they are almost inseparable, and they know that their ladies actually don’t feel good about this, but they just can’t stop being with friends. The surprise thing you can do is plan a night out with the boys; you can either cook and get some drinks and invite them over for a timeout or you can arrange a fun night with the boys. Have fun with his friends, and your man would love you the more. Besides, a night out with the boys is usually fun and different from being with your female friends. Just have fun with your man.
3. GET HIM A GIFT OF HIS FAVOURITE ITEM
You don’t necessarily have to take him shopping; plan a surprise gift for him, wrap and place the gift item on his bed before he comes back. If he’s a fashionable person, buy him a shirt; if he loves sports, buy him a jersey of his favourite team, you could buy him a watch, a shoe or just anything you know your man would love. Place the gift in a strategic position before he comes back, and don’t forget to add a little note: “I love you honey”, or “You are the best man any woman could ask for”, or “Thanks for always making me happy”… just anything simple and romantic. First, you might get him thinking if he’s missed an anniversary or something; but he would surely love it, and he would make sure that he continues to make you happy. Men are extremely sensitive to such things.
4. PANTS, BOXERS OR BRIEFS
One thing with most men I’ve come across is that they appreciate gifts from a lady, no matter how simple and inexpensive it is. Show your naughty side by getting him the kind of undies he would definitely love or you could even tease him by getting him undies that’s different from what he wears, and drop a note revealing that it would look hot on him, and you would love to see him in it. Trust me, he would wear it, and he would have you in mind whenever he wears them.
5. COOK HIS FAVOURITE MEAL
The older women would always say that the way to a man’s heart is his belly, and it really worked for them. Men always love a good meal; you can surprise your man by cooking him that favourite meal of his; not ordering for it, but cooking it. The fact you went through such stress to make him happy would pass the message, and he wouldn’t forget that meal in a hurry.
6. GET HIM A TICKET FOR HIS FAVOURITE TEAM
If your man is a sports man then this is one good thing you can do for him. Buy him that ticket to watch his team play, and buy yours as well. Even if you aren’t a sports fan, go cheer along with your man; feel the vibe of the sport with him, cheer and shout whenever he does, be his buddy, have an unforgettable experience with him, and you would reach a deeper place in his heart.
7. UNPLANNED SEDUCTIVE SEX
Yea, make him feel like the only man in the world with a highly seductive sex, and make sure it’s a surprise. Get your groove on, wear a nice scent, put on highly seductive lingerie, play some soft music, dim lights would do, and the rest would work like magic. Make it different from the others, and your man would definitely not forget such a night.
You don’t have to wait till it’s Valentine’s Day or any special event before you give your man a surprise, that’s why it’s called a surprise.
Divorce what? Fill his life with good surprises and he would never think of a divorce.
Passion makes a marriage/relationship last. Surprise is a gateway to passion