Some ladies lose their man almost as soon as they get them, or they never get the man to commit to them.
So many things women do can scare the hell out of a man, which would push him to make two decisions — he might hurriedly leave the relationship or he might never commit to that relationship.
Do not think you are cursed or unattractive which is why you can’t keep the men in your life; there are so many things women do regularly that scare the man in their lives away.
1. RUSHING THINGS SO QUICKLY
A lot of ladies scare their man away by being hasty for commitment or marriage. When you start talking about marriage or having babies or asking him to meet your parents just after starting a relationship with him, you might scare him away from your life.
Marriage is a big deal to most men; it isn’t what a lot of men would rush into — rushing into it might scare him away.
2. CHANGING FROM HOW YOU WERE
This is another mistake many ladies make that keeps scaring men away. Most ladies know how to be sweet and caring when the relationship starts, but turn a shadow of themselves afterwards. This would definitely scare him away.
Don’t just act sweet and beautiful to get a man only to become nonchalant afterwards; you would only scare him away.
3. BEING TOO CLINGY AND POSSESSIVE
This is another feminine trait that can scare just about any man. Being too clingy and possessive, and also restricting your man from being himself would only put pressure on the relationship. Sometimes, give him that space for him to clear his mind; over-possessive and clingy women only end up losing their man too soon.
4. BEING A DRAMA QUEEN
Some women are the architect of their own problems. Being a troublesome woman and a woman who is quick to start a quarrel in the relationship would easily make your man lose interest and leave the relationship. Women with this kind of behaviour scare men away, no matter how beautiful they look.
5. BEING UNNECESSARILY JEALOUS
Jealousy is another trait women have that can easily scare men away. Being unnecessarily Jealous only shows that you are insecure and lacking in confidence — this wouldn’t only make you unattractive, but you would most likely put up scary attitudes like being a drama queen if you are the jealous type.
6. YOU NAG AND COMPLAIN A LOT
I haven’t seen a man who appreciates the woman who’s always nagging and complaining about everything. The woman who nags and complains a lot would only end up scaring her man away.
7. YOU ARE MONEY CONSCIOUS
Not every man can handle being with a money conscious kind of woman. The money conscious kind of woman is the woman who is highly interested in just the man’s money; she most likely wouldn’t spend a dime of her own on her man but would request for everything.
8. YOU ARE BOSSY
Some women love to boss things, they love to be in control and they even bring that to their relationship. Women such as these scare men away, as not only every man would love to be told to controlled.
9. YOU ARE PROMISCUOUS
If a man can’t trust you because he perceives you are a promiscuous woman then he would never take the relationship serious, or he might easily get scared away even if he loves you. A female friend of mine recently complained of how she’s been unlucky with men, and from her narration, it was so easy to point that what’s scaring men from being committed to her is simply because they perceive she’s promiscuous. No man would want to commit to a woman he deems promiscuous.
Have you been scaring men away without knowing the cause? These nine reasons are why most men wouldn’t commit to a woman and would easily get scared of having a serious relationship with her.